BELONGING
A TRANSFORMATIONAL HEALING IMMERSION
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Estuary Yoga Space, North Melbourne
Do you think or feel on some level…
• There’s something wrong with me
• Somehow different to other people or that you don’t fit in
• Alone, lonely or isolated
• On the outside everything looks fine, you may even be seen as the “strong one” that everyone turns to, but inside you feel a little lost and maybe even a big hurt
If you can relate, you’re definitely not alone.
So many of us go through life, on the outside looking like everything is ok, but on the inside feeling there is something different or wrong with us. That we are not ok as we are. Maybe feeling a deep hurt relating to who we are and how we are. But no one talks about it; everyone pretends they’re all ok.
If you can relate, and if you’re ready for things to be different, this deep inner healing immersion was created for you.
Discover a deeper sense of belonging – with yourself, your family, in relationships and with life
• Heal past wounds – free yourself from your past and move forward with greater ease
• Discover hidden generational blocks and subconscious family loyalties limiting you and your life
• Reconnect with your familial roots – a tree can only grow as tall as its roots go deep; reconnect with your familial roots and rebuild a stronger foundation on which to thrive in life
• Cultivate deeper understanding and compassion for yourself and your journey
• Rebuild trust, not just with others, but, most importantly, within yourself
• Experience being supported by your family, rather than limited by them
• Create a deeper connection with yourself, others and life
• Maximum of 10 participants to ensure a safe and supportive environment. This allows you to go deep, get individual attention, personalised processes and the most out of our time together
Heal your past and transform your life
1. BOOK
Simply click the Book Now button, fill in your details and select your payment option.
2. ATTEND
Be guided and held throughout each experience so you feel comfortable and supported each step of the way.
3. LIVE LIFE
You go and live life, letting the changes integrate in the background. It’s that simple. No homework or special steps needed.
It’s through reconfiguring our “belonging” that we can have the life we’re wanting…
Too many people feel there is something different or wrong with them; that they are not ok as they are. Too many people feel isolated and alone; that there is no place here for them and that they don’t belong. And whether they want to admit it or not, too many people feel a deep hurt, and even shame, relating to who they are and how they are. They may even feel shame for feeling the way they do, especially when they can’t pinpoint the reason for how they feel.
If you can relate, you are definitely not alone.
So many of us are carrying around past pain – from earlier in life, from childhood, and, from past generations.
A lot of our pain didn’t even start with us, but instead comes from our parents, grandparents, great-grandparents and even previous generations. But while this pain didn’t start with us, it does affect our lives, and the effects can be significant.
Essentially, if people in your family suffered trauma (and let’s face it, which family hasn’t?), and if they weren’t able to process the trauma (and let’s face it, how many older generations were told to sweep it under the carpet and chin up, get on with life?), then the trauma stays in the family system for younger generations to pick up in order to remember, include and heal it.
Why do we pick up our family’s pain?
Can’t we just not be like our parents/family and take different actions?
Unfortunately no…
The more we consciously push away or against our family’s way of being, the more we unconsciously pull their pain closer to us.
All children want to belong to their families, and we compute “belonging” in its crudest form – through being just like those we come from. In practical terms, we do this by repeating our family’s painful patterns. We do it out of love and loyalty because we don’t want our families to suffer, and we do it to belong and be just like them.
So while the pain may not have started with you, the healing process does.
This weekend is designed to help you start to reconfigure a new way to connect and belong – by letting go of carrying your family’s pain, and instead connect and belong to your family through love (in whatever ways and to whatever extent is available), rather than through their pain.
When we feel we belong just as we are, we can have the things we’re wanting – a deeper natural self-confidence and sense of “ok-ness”, feeling more supported and less alone, a greater sense of knowing who we are, feeling more connected to ourselves and our lives, deeper relationships and connection with others, feeling more “enough” and a greater self-worth. And over time this can develop into more happiness and well-being, more meaning and fulfillment, more love and connection, and more success in life.
If you are here on this planet at this time in life, you matter and your life matters. There are no accidents. You are here because life wants you here. Life knows there is nothing wrong with you.
You are wanted, and you belong. Just as you are.
The experience in more detail
Feel safe, supported and held in a small intimate group as you:
Let go of wounding and patterns from past generations
Much of the pain we carry didn’t even start with us. A lot comes from our parents and previous generations. However while this past generational pain may not have started with us, it DOES affect our life. And the effects can be significant.
Family love and loyalty creates some of the deepest and most difficult blocks to shift. Have the opportunity to let go of some of the generational pain you are holding on to, enabling you to live your own life rather than re-living the pain of someone in your family.
Image by Mehmet Turgut Kirkgoz
Start rebuilding trust and allowing yourself to be supported
Before we can reach out and allow good things in, we first need to be able to trust, and allow ourselves to be supported.
When we can really yield and surrender, we can then trust that we are safe and supported by ourselves, by our families, by others, and by life. When you can trust yourself to be safe and supported, this allows life to flow more easily to you, for you and, eventually, through you.
Image by Ricky Esquivel
Rewire neural pathways to start allowing more in
Be guided through a process of going back to an originating incident to heal the pain and rewire your brain from that point so you can let go of the old script and start running a different program, one more aligned with what you want in life. Like updating a computer program, the old code or script gets replaced with the new script. This allows you to let go of subconscious fear and pain, and start having more of what you want in life. And because it’s all done on the subconscious level, there is nothing you need to do differently; things just become naturally different.
Image by Raniele Gouveia
Inclusions
- Individual process – family systemic healing (family constellation) to begin healing intergenerational trauma affecting you today
- Individual process – being supported by family and life – begin to stop pushing your family and life away and start allowing yourself to be supported
- Individual process – rewire neural pathways to start letting go of unconscious fear and pain, and start to allow more in
- Participation in 3-4 other constellations – it’s possible to get change through participating in other’s family systemic healing as much as your own
- Group sharing and support
- Participant numbers strictly limited to ensure a safe and supportive environment, allowing you to go deep, get individual attention, personalised processes and the most out of our time together
Your facilitator – Kimberley Tiong
Kim facilitates deeply transformative workshops, retreats and sessions for people in various cities around Australia and the USA. Kim’s work is often described as “life changing”. That’s because Kim has been through the journey of change herself.
In Kim’s own words:
“I know what it’s like to feel there is something so fundamentally wrong with you; that you are so broken that nothing can ‘fix” you.
I know what it’s like to feel alien and that there’s no place for you here; that you don’t belong and even that you don’t want to be here.
I know what it’s like to feel alone and a deep, underlying aching need for connection. To feel self-loathing and deep hurt, anger, grief, sadness and heart-break over who and how you are.
And I know what it’s like to go through the journey of change.
My journey took me from Melbourne to Sydney to Bali and the USA. From NLP to Theta Healing to Timeline Therapy to coaching to Family Systemic Constellations, to Matrix Therapies and more.
And while it didn’t happen overnight, through the work I was doing, little by little I felt and saw evidence of change – deeper more meaningful relationships with myself, my parents, family and friends; feeling happier, freer and more naturally comfortable in who I am; and ultimately feeling I have found my place in life.
And I would love to help you on your journey to the same – finding your place in life and being more lit up, more connected to yourself, others and life; feeling more confident and comfortable in who you are. Feeling happier, healthier and freer to be your true self.
Because you matter and your life matters.”
Kimberley’s qualifications and certifications include:
- Master NLP Practitioner – NLP Marin, USA
- Family Constellation Practitioner – NLP Marin, USA
- Holographic NLP – NLP Marin, USA
- Results Coaching Certification – Authentic Education, Australia
- Theta Healing – Mark Anthony, Australia
- Time-Line Therapy – Your Future Now, Australia
- Hypnotherapy – Your Future Now, Australia
- Passion & Purpose Coaching – Pip McKay, Australia
- Masculine & Feminine Coaching – Pip McKay, Australia
- Matrix Therapies Coaching – Pip McKay, Australia
- Life Coach – Pip McKay, Australia
- Archetypal Coach – Pip McKay, Australia
- Member of the Australian Institute of Training and Development
- Accredited facilitator of the Team Management Profile
The details
Date: 2 day immersion – date TBC
Time: 9am – 5:30pm each day
Location: Estuary Yoga Space, North Melbourne (details provided in booking confirmation)
Investment: $580 (please note PayPal and credit card fees apply; payment via bank transfer is available with no additional fee)
Payment plans are available, please contact Kim to discuss your needs.
Maximum 10 participants, places filled on first come first served basis.
Giving back
For every person who attends this transformational healing immersion:
OUR PLANET gets 1 new tree, planted on your behalf through Reforest Now
(You can find out more about Just One Tree and their amazing work here: https://www.reforestnow.org.au/planttrees)
PEOPLE IN NEED get 10 days of education and 10 days of business training through our partnership with B1G1
(You can find out more about B1G1 and their amazing work here: https://b1g1.com)
FAQ
Do you have payment plans available?
Yes absolutely. The standard payment plan is 2 payments with full payment due in full by Wednesday 25 October 2023. Alternatively contact Kim to discuss your needs.
Is this gender-specific?
This is not gender-specific and is open to anyone who feels called to be there.
My question isn’t answered here
Feel free to Contact Kim directly with any other questions, queries or concerns.
Past client experiences and successes
“I gained so much insight into what had been holding me back and why some of my behaviours were what they were….a response to trauma. I met some amazing people who’s own experiences taught me something along the way. I learnt new ways of thinking, ways to adjust and respond to negative thinking. Most importantly I learnt that stuffing everything down over the years had taken its toll and was still all there waiting to be dealt with. The weekend guided me and allowed a truly safe, loving space to unload it all. I am so very grateful for Kimberley’s guidance, love, teachings and compassion” – Renee
“I would thoroughly recommend Kimberley to take you on a journey of deep self-exploration, and exploration of your current family and historic family dynamics affecting you. She is gentle, astute, intuitive and has been through the journey herself. I found time with Kimberley invaluable.” – Anna-Jane
“I am still so grateful for attending your weekend workshop, I really found it life changing.”
“I shared so much more than I ever thought I would. I felt so safe and supported”
“I wasn’t sure what to expect… the weekend definitely exceeded my expectations”
“I can honestly say working with Kim has been one of the most rewarding experiences I have had. I found that every aspect of my life had improved significantly. Kim helped me to identify and release any limiting or negative beliefs that were holding me back, and focus all of my energies on the positive. I feel motivated, determined, and able to see my exciting, sparkling future path. I feel confident that I now have the tools to deal with any negative energy or limiting thoughts that enter my life, and I can truly say I have never felt more positive in my life. I would highly recommend this program. Kim is intuitive, calming and inspiring, and able to tailor a program that suits each individual. Each day I feel inspired and grateful for the smallest things, I feel totally connected and present and equipped to handle anything.” -Verity Hayward
I met Kim in 2019 after my divorce. It was such a tough time, I was trying to figure out why I repeated the same problems from previous relationships even though I desperately wanted a happy family. I only had 1 session with Kim but it was an amazing life transformation. I released so much pain that had been stuck deep down inside me for over 30 years. Kim helped me find the core root of the problem and face my biggest fear from childhood. Kim was so professional every single second that she was with me. I felt safe and trusting. Since working with Kim I have overcame my fear of being alone, handling life as a single parent, and moving on to find the right partner for me. Since then, my mental health has improved, as has my decision making and my insecurity. I learned to forgive and let go of the past, and I also found my happiness. I have recommended Kim to many of my friends and others – people that have been struggling with their lives, relationships, emotions, family matters, people going through divorce and separation. I spent 2 hours with Kim, I will never forget that experience and I will always remember because of that 2 hours, I now have the life I have right now. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart!
-Bella Le
“We have been lucky enough to have 2 family constellations with Kim for my son and daughter, both with anxiety and self-esteem issues.
My daughter attended both. My son had no inclination to attend and didn’t actually ask for a constellation. As a mother, I felt responsible and so went ahead with my son’s session anyway.
After my son’s constellation I personally felt a tremendous weight being lifted from me, and somehow layers were peeled off me. My relationship with my son changed and I gave him more space to be himself; it was not my job to “fix” him.
My daughter also experienced shifts in her general well-being and self-esteem.
After her own constellation, the shift that happened the very next day was and still is amazing and continues to enrich all our lives. There have been many changes that on the face may seem small but put together it has been a huge transition.
My daughter is glowing from the inside out. Sooo grateful to Kim” – Jayne Hughes
“In the short space of an hour and a half we went deeper than I thought possible and reached real reflections and insights in a safe and supported environment” -Ceri
“Kim is unexpectedly insightful into ways of addressing unconscious thoughts and feelings about ourselves. The group session was amazingly freeing and refreshing. Thank you for allowing me to feel safe and share.” -Tara Wilson
“Kim is such a beautiful and nurturing soul – I love the way she is completely open about her own story and what brought her to her passion. I enjoyed the day immensely and thank her for sharing her work with me” -Georgie Jhet
